The Supplement Aisle Overwhelm: A Reality Check for Midlife Women
- Jennifer Berryhill

- Nov 29, 2025
- 14 min read
Updated: Jan 2

You're standing in the supplement aisle, staring at a wall of bottles that might as well be written in hieroglyphics.
Vitamin D3 or D2? Methylated B vitamins or regular? Magnesium glycinate, citrate, or threonate? And don't even get me started on the price tags that make you wonder if you should be taking out a second mortgage just to support your mitochondria.
I've been there. We've all been there. And after nearly three decades in health and wellness, nutrition coaching, and training in brain-health protocols, I'm here to cut through the confusion with some straight talk about supplements.
Let's Start With the Hard Truth About Our Food Supply (And Why Real Food Still Comes First)
Here's something that doesn't get talked about enough: the nutrient density of our food has declined significantly over the past 50 years. Studies comparing the nutrient content of crops from the 1950s to today show reductions ranging from 5% to 40% in minerals, vitamins, and protein. Soil depletion, modern farming practices, early harvesting, long-distance shipping, and storage time all take their toll.
That heirloom tomato your grandmother grew in her backyard? It had more Vitamin C, Potassium, Vitamin K, and Folate than the one you're buying at the grocery store today, even if it's organic.
But here's what I need you to understand: supplements are called supplements for a reason. They're meant to supplement a foundation of quality nutrition, not replace it.
Food provides something that isolated nutrients in pill form simply cannot: the complex matrix of cofactors, enzymes, fiber, phytonutrients, and compounds we haven't even discovered yet that work synergistically in ways we're only beginning to understand.
When you eat a wild-caught salmon, you're not just getting omega-3s—you're getting protein, selenium, B vitamins, astaxanthin, and dozens of other beneficial compounds working together. A fish oil capsule, no matter how high quality, can't replicate that.

The fiber in vegetables feeds your gut microbiome, which then produces beneficial compounds that influence everything from your brain health to your immune system. The polyphenols in berries work differently in the context of the whole fruit than they do isolated in a capsule. The calcium in leafy greens comes packaged with vitamin K, magnesium, and other minerals that help your body use it effectively.
So before we even talk about supplements, let's talk about food priorities:
Quality protein sources—wild-caught fish, pasture-raised eggs, grass-fed meat if you eat it, organic poultry—provide amino acids, B vitamins, iron, zinc, and other nutrients in their most bioavailable forms.
Colorful vegetables and fruits provide thousands of phytonutrients, antioxidants, and fiber that work together to reduce inflammation and support cellular health in ways that isolated antioxidant supplements often fail to do.
Healthy fats from wild-caught fatty fish, olive oil, avocados, nuts, and seeds provide essential fatty acids along with fat-soluble vitamins and protective compounds.
Fermented foods like sauerkraut, kimchi, and yogurt provide probiotics along with enzymes and bioavailable nutrients that support digestive health and the gut-brain axis.

Does the decline in food nutrient density mean everyone should be taking supplements?
Not necessarily, but it does mean that even if you're eating a pristine diet, you might not be getting everything your body needs—especially during the metabolically demanding transition of midlife. For midlife women dealing with the shifts of perimenopause and menopause, this gap can become even more significant.
Supplements can fill documented deficiencies and provide therapeutic doses for specific health goals. But they work best when built on a foundation of nutrient-dense whole foods, not as a replacement for poor dietary choices.
So How Many Supplements Do We Actually Need?
The supplement industry would love for you to believe that everyone needs the same 47-step morning routine, but your needs are as individual as your fingerprint.
What I can tell you is this: most midlife women benefit from addressing common deficiencies that testing often reveals—things like vitamin D, omega-3s, magnesium, and certain B vitamins tend to be low. But the specific forms, doses, and combinations you need depend on your genetics, stress levels, sleep quality, digestive health, medications, and specific health concerns.
The real question isn't "how many?" but "which ones, why, and at what dose?"
There Is NO One-Size-Fits-All Approach
I need to be crystal clear about this: what works for your best friend, your sister, or that woman on Instagram with the perfect morning routine might be completely wrong for you. In fact, it could potentially be harmful.
This is why working with your medical practitioner or healthcare team is essential.
Here's what many people don't realize: supplements are biologically active compounds that can interact with medications, influence lab results, and affect various body systems. They're not benign just because they're "natural."
Common supplement-medication interactions to be aware of:
Vitamin K can interfere with blood thinners like warfarin
St. John's Wort reduces the effectiveness of birth control, antidepressants, and many other medications
High-dose omega-3s can increase bleeding risk, especially if you're on blood thinners or about to have surgery
Magnesium can interfere with certain antibiotics and osteoporosis medications
Calcium can reduce absorption of thyroid medications, certain antibiotics, and bisphosphonates
Iron interferes with thyroid medication, certain antibiotics, and Parkinson's medications
Grapefruit seed extract affects the same liver enzymes as grapefruit, interfering with many medications
High-dose B vitamins can interfere with certain chemotherapy drugs
Berberine can enhance the effects of diabetes medications, potentially causing dangerous blood sugar drops
This is why you need a healthcare team that knows your full medication list, understands supplement interactions, and can monitor you appropriately.
Your supplement protocol should be created collaboratively with qualified professionals who:
Review your complete medication list
Understand your health history and current conditions
Can order and interpret appropriate testing
Monitor you over time for both benefits and potential issues
Adjust your protocol as your needs change
If your doctor isn't well-versed in supplements (many aren't, as it's not emphasized in conventional medical training), consider working with a functional medicine doctor, naturopathic physician, nurse-practitioner, or registered dietician who specializes in this area and can coordinate with your primary care team.
I've seen too many people create supplement protocols based on social media trends or what worked for someone else, only to end up with problems ranging from wasted money to actual health complications. Mega-dosing can be dangerous.
Your biochemistry is unique. Your protocol should be too.
How Do We Know What We Actually Need?
This is where functional medicine labs become your best friend. You don't have to guess, and you definitely shouldn't be supplementing based solely on what some influencer is hawking on Instagram.

How Can I Track and Choose Wisely?
There is a great company called Vitaboom that tests 17 key biomarker to personalize supplement packs for you. You can even do follow-up testing to check your status and adjust when needed.
Also check out a new app from SuppCo that is built to help you track what your taking and also suggests stacks from top doctors; also provides a TrustScore quality rating system.
Basic bloodwork your doctor can order:
Vitamin D (25-hydroxy vitamin D)
B12 and folate
Iron panel (ferritin, serum iron, TIBC, transferrin saturation)
Comprehensive metabolic panel (includes magnesium, though this doesn't tell the whole story)
Thyroid panel including TSH, free T3, and free T4
More comprehensive functional labs to explore with your practitioner:
OmegaQuant - Omega-3 Index test (measures EPA and DHA in cell membranes)
Genova Diagnostics NutrEval - A comprehensive test that evaluates over 125 biomarkers including vitamins, minerals, amino acids, fatty acids, oxidative stress markers, and metabolic function. This is one of the most thorough nutrient assessments available and can reveal patterns you'd never catch with standard bloodwork.
SpectraCell Micronutrient Panel - Measures how nutrients are actually functioning inside your cells (intracellular) rather than just what's floating in your blood. This can reveal functional deficiencies even when serum levels look "normal."
Organic acids testing (provides insight into cellular metabolism, nutrient deficiencies, and mitochondrial function)
Methylmalonic acid (MMA) for true B12 status
Red blood cell magnesium or 'RBC' Magnesium (much more accurate than serum magnesium)
Homocysteine (indicates B vitamin status and cardiovascular risk)
These comprehensive panels aren't cheap (typically $300-500), but they can save you money in the long run by showing you exactly what you need instead of supplementing blindly.
I tell my clients: test, don't guess. Your symptoms might suggest deficiencies, but numbers don't lie. Brain fog could be B12, vitamin D, magnesium, thyroid issues, or all of the above. Testing removes the guesswork and saves you money in the long run.
The Quality Question: Not All Supplements Are Created Equal
Here's where things get real. The supplement industry operates under very different rules than the pharmaceutical industry, and understanding this is critical to making informed choices.

The FDA regulation gap you need to know about:
Unlike prescription and over-the-counter medications, dietary supplements don't have to undergo rigorous testing and approval before hitting store shelves. The FDA doesn't evaluate supplements for safety or effectiveness before they're sold. Manufacturers aren't required to prove their products work—they only need to notify the FDA that they're selling a dietary supplement.
This means that bottle sitting on the shelf hasn't been put through the clinical trials that your blood pressure medication or even your allergy medicine has undergone. It's a completely different regulatory framework.
What supplement labels can and cannot claim:
By law, supplement labels cannot claim to treat, cure, or prevent diseases. So you'll never see a legitimate supplement say "cures diabetes" or "treats Alzheimer's." Instead, you'll see vague language like "supports immune health," "promotes heart function," or "maintains cognitive wellness."
These structure-function claims are intentionally non-specific. They often reference limited evidence about a particular ingredient rather than proven health outcomes for the actual product you're buying. When you see buzzwords like "superfood," "all-natural," or "clinically studied," remember that these terms aren't regulated and don't guarantee safety or effectiveness. Natural doesn't automatically mean safe—poison ivy is natural, too.
The content variability problem:
Because of this limited oversight, what's listed on the label may not actually match what's in the bottle. Studies have found shocking variability in supplement content. One analysis of melatonin supplements found products containing 83% less than labeled amounts, while others had up to 478% more than claimed. Twenty-six percent of the tested products contained serotonin, which wasn't listed on the label at all.
This isn't just about getting what you paid for—it's a safety issue.
Taking significantly more or less than you think you're getting can affect both efficacy and side effects. Taking a product that contains unlisted ingredients creates unknown risks, especially if you're on medications. And the potential for heavy-metal contamination or other toxins exists in many products, especially protein powders and products like turmeric.
Look for these quality markers
Third-party testing certifications:
NSF Certified for Sport
USP Verified
ConsumerLab.com approved
Informed Choice certified
These organizations actually test products to verify they contain what they claim and are free from contaminants like heavy metals, pesticides, and banned substances.
Other quality indicators:
GMP (Good Manufacturing Practices) certification
Transparency about sourcing and manufacturing
Companies that conduct their own additional testing beyond what's required
Brands that provide Certificates of Analysis (COAs) upon request
Red flags to watch for:
Prices that seem too good to be true (they usually are)
Products sold through third-party marketplaces where counterfeits are common
Vague sourcing information
Proprietary blends that don't list individual ingredient amounts
Wild health claims that sound like miracle cures
The Counterfeit and Storage Problem

This is a serious issue that doesn't get enough attention. Counterfeit supplements are a real problem, especially with popular brands sold through Amazon or other third-party sellers. These fake products might contain none of the stated ingredients, dangerous fillers, or contaminants.
How to protect yourself:
Buy directly from the manufacturer's website or from verified retailers. Yes, it might cost a bit more, but you're actually getting what you're paying for.
Store your supplements properly. Heat, light, and moisture degrade nutrients. That means your bathroom medicine cabinet (steamy from showers) is actually one of the worst places to keep supplements. Keep them in a cool, dry place, away from direct sunlight. And if you live in a hot climate, consider that your garage or mailbox might be getting hot enough to damage products during shipping.
When I order sensitive supplements during summer months, I specifically request ice packs or cold shipping, or I have them delivered to a climate-controlled location.
The Money Talk Nobody Wants to Have
Let's be honest: quality supplements are expensive. A comprehensive protocol can easily run $100-300 per month, and that's real money that has to come from somewhere.
Here's my practical approach:
Prioritize based on testing. If your vitamin D is tanked, that takes precedence over the trendy adaptogen everyone's talking about.
Start with foundations. A few high-quality, targeted supplements will serve you better than 30 mediocre ones.
Consider the cost of not supplementing. I know this sounds like a justification, but hear me out. The long-term cost of poor bone health, cognitive decline, or chronic inflammation far exceeds your monthly supplement budget. This is preventive healthcare.
Buy in bulk when it makes sense. Many companies offer discounts for 90-day supplies or subscription services.
Skip the fluff. Maybe you don't need collagen, CoQ10, resveratrol, AND NMN, AND pterostilbene, AND every other longevity supplement on the market. Choose strategically based on your goals and budget.
Yes, quality supplements cost money.
Yes, prioritizing nutrient-dense food may cost more than processed options (but not always).
But so does brain fog that affects your work performance, bone fractures, chronic fatigue that steals your life, and cognitive decline that could potentially be prevented or delayed.
This is an investment in your future self. The woman you'll be at 70, 80, 90 is being built right now by the choices you make today. Make them count.
What's Specific to Midlife Women?

I'm going to get specific here because this is my specialty. Midlife brings unique challenges that make certain supplements particularly important:
The estrogen decline affects everything. As estrogen drops during perimenopause and menopause, we see:
Decreased calcium absorption (hello, bone health concerns)
Changes in how we metabolize B vitamins
Reduced serotonin production
Increased inflammation
Decreased insulin sensitivity
Brain health becomes non-negotiable. The menopausal transition is actually a neurological transition. The brain fog, memory issues, and cognitive changes are real, not imagined. Research shows that supporting brain health during this window may influence cognitive health decades later.
As someone certified in Apollo Health's ReCODE™ and PreCODE™ protocols (Dr. Dale Bredesen's approach to dementia prevention and reversal), I can tell you that brain health supplementation is both evidence-based and highly personalized. The Bredesen Protocol™ emphasizes that cognitive decline has multiple contributing factors, so the supplement approach is targeted based on your specific cognitive type and root causes.
The brain health approach requires understanding YOUR specific needs:
The Bredesen Protocol™ identifies different subtypes of cognitive decline—inflammatory, metabolic, toxic, vascular, and traumatic—each requiring different nutritional support. What someone with insulin resistance needs is different from what someone with high inflammation or toxic burden needs.
This isn't about taking a predetermined list of "brain supplements." It's about testing to identify your specific cognitive risk factors and creating a targeted protocol. For example, if insulin resistance is your driver, you might need different support than if chronic inflammation is your primary issue. If toxin exposure is a concern, your protocol would emphasize detoxification pathways.
The foundation always includes addressing omega-3 status, optimizing vitamin D levels, ensuring adequate B vitamins (particularly if you have genetic variants affecting methylation), and supporting mitochondrial function. From there, specific compounds that support neurotransmitter production, reduce neuroinflammation, enhance brain-derived neurotrophic factor (BDNF), or protect against oxidative stress might be indicated based on your individual assessment.
And here's something critical: the gut-brain axis is real. Brain health starts in the gut. Supporting your microbiome through both food and targeted probiotics when indicated can have profound effects on cognitive function.
This personalized approach is vastly different from the one-size-fits-all supplement industry marketing that suggests everyone needs the same brain health stack.
Mitochondrial support matters more. Our cellular powerhouses start declining, which affects energy, metabolism, and brain function. Supporting mitochondrial health through both nutrition and targeted supplementation (when testing indicates specific needs) becomes increasingly important.
Bone density requires attention. We can lose up to 20% of bone density in the 5-7 years following menopause.
The calcium-only approach is outdated. Bone health requires a comprehensive approach that includes vitamin D for calcium absorption, vitamin K2 to direct calcium to bones rather than arteries, magnesium as part of the bone matrix, and other minerals that support bone metabolism. But again, doses and specific forms should be based on your individual testing and risk factors.
My Real-World Approach

Here's what I actually do and recommend to clients:
Start with testing. Know your numbers. This is not negotiable.
Prioritize quality food first. Build your nutrition foundation with nutrient-dense whole foods. Supplements work best when they're actually supplementing a solid dietary base, not compensating for poor food choices.
Build your supplement foundation based on your testing. For most midlife women, this typically addresses common deficiencies in key nutrients that testing reveals. The specific forms, doses, and combinations depend entirely on your individual results and health goals.
Know why you're taking each supplement. This is crucial. You should be able to explain the purpose of every single supplement in your regimen. Not because someone on Instagram takes it. Not because it was on sale. But because you have a documented deficiency, a specific health goal it supports, or a therapeutic reason based on your testing and health history.
Ask yourself these questions about each supplement:
What specific deficiency or health concern is this addressing?
What was my baseline level, and what's my target?
How long do I plan to take this before retesting?
Is this a long-term foundational supplement or a short-term therapeutic intervention?
How will I know if it's working?
Some supplements are foundational and ongoing—if you live in a northern climate and test consistently low in vitamin D, you'll likely need year-round supplementation. Others are therapeutic and temporary—if you're using high-dose iron to correct anemia, you'll eventually reach your target and may be able to reduce or discontinue it.
Without this clarity, you end up with a cabinet full of half-empty bottles you're taking "just because," spending money on things you don't need, and potentially creating imbalances you don't intend.
Add targeted support based on your specific situation:
Struggling with sleep? Certain forms of magnesium and amino acids might help
Brain fog? Address omega-3 status, vitamin D levels, and B vitamin metabolism
Energy crashes? Investigate mitochondrial function and check iron status
Mood issues? Omega-3s, vitamin D, and methylation support are often foundational
Bone health concerns? A comprehensive bone support protocol beyond just calcium
Buy quality. I maintain a curated list of brands I trust because I've vetted their testing, sourcing, and manufacturing. It's worth paying more for products that actually contain what they claim and are free from contaminants.
Create a system. I use a weekly pill organizer and set phone reminders. There's no shame in needing systems; there's only waste in buying supplements you forget to take.
Retest and adjust. Every 3-6 months, check in. Are your numbers improving? Do you feel different? Adjust accordingly. This is where that intentional plan for each supplement pays off—you know when to retest, what you're looking for, and when to potentially discontinue or adjust doses.
Work with qualified professionals. Your supplement protocol should be created in collaboration with healthcare providers who understand both your medications and your health goals. This isn't something to DIY based on Instagram trends.
The Hidden Danger of Overdoing It
Here's something that doesn't get discussed enough in the wellness space: you can absolutely have too much of a good thing when it comes to supplements. More is not better, and in some cases, it can be genuinely harmful.

Your liver is responsible for processing and metabolizing everything you consume, including supplements. When you're taking high doses of multiple supplements—especially fat-soluble vitamins like A, D, E, and K that accumulate in tissues rather than being excreted—you can create a significant burden on your liver. Some supplements, particularly certain herbs and high-dose vitamins, have been linked to liver damage when taken in excessive amounts or for extended periods.
This is one more reason why that cabinet full of every trendy supplement you've accumulated over the years isn't a badge of health—it's a potential problem. Quality over quantity matters immensely.
I think about something Dr. Kara Fitzgerald wrote in her book Younger You that has stuck with me:
"Perhaps we shouldn't be telling the body what to do by flooding it with isolated nutrients, but that we could give the body what it needed as whole-food and lifestyle interventions and it, in its own wisdom, could find its way back to balance."
This perspective shifts everything. Instead of trying to micromanage every biochemical pathway with a different pill, we focus on creating the conditions for the body to do what it already knows how to do: heal, balance, and thrive. Targeted supplementation based on documented deficiencies? Absolutely. Strategic therapeutic use for specific health goals? When warranted, yes. But a kitchen counter covered in bottles because we're convinced we need to hack every system simultaneously? That's not health optimization—that's nutritional hubris.

The body's wisdom deserves our respect. Sometimes the most powerful intervention is removing what's interfering with health rather than adding more to an already overwhelmed system.
The Bottom Line
The supplement aisle is overwhelming because we're sold the idea that more is better, that we need everything, that there's a magic pill for every problem. That's not how biochemistry works.
Real food comes first. Always. Supplements are meant to supplement, not replace, a foundation of nutrient-dense whole foods that provide complex nutrition we can't replicate in pill form.
Supplements can be vital to supporting your body & brain...
What you need beyond that foundation is specific to you—your genetics, your current health status, your goals, and what your testing reveals.
Testing removes the guesswork.
Quality matters more than quantity.
Consistency beats perfection.
And working with qualified healthcare professionals who understand both supplements and potential medication interactions is essential.
Disclaimer: This post is for educational purposes only and is not intended as medical advice. The information shared here should not replace consultation with your healthcare provider. Always work with a qualified healthcare professional before starting any supplement protocol, especially if you have existing health conditions or take medications. Individual needs vary, and what works for one person may not be appropriate for another.
Want help creating a list of supplement questions to ask your practitioner? That's exactly what we cover in my BrainGrace™ coaching program. 1:1 Coaching
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